This magical moment. - Why I Left My Job

Noticing the simple, magical moments in our everyday lives.

ThisMagicMoment

I am a worrier. I worry about my kids when they are playing rough. I worry about my to-do list when it doesn’t seem like I am adding enough checkmarks. I worry about my husband encountering distracted drivers on his way to and from work. I worry, and when I worry, my view of what is in front of me becomes a little cloudy and grey—the world becomes a lot less magical.

In January, I decided that instead of making a New Year’s resolution I would choose one word to live by in 2015: magical. I needed to focus on worrying less, especially about what I have no control over. And I needed to learn how to see the world through the eyes of my children more often. Yes, so much of what goes on in the world is scary and heartbreaking, but every day there are magical moments happening right in front of us. When we put our fears and worries aside, when we take a moment to breathe and open our eyes, we let the magic in.

As I look back on these past seven months, or seven days, or even the past seven hours, I admit that there have been many moments that were not magical. There have been many moments when my eyes have been closed and my heart has felt heavy with worries. But I am learning. I am learning to worry less. I am learning to see how beautiful the most simple and ordinary moments can be. I am learning a lot of this from my kids.

A couple of weeks ago, the kids and I were invited to attend Princess Wednesdays at the Hard Rock Café at the Mall of America. For attending and writing about the event, the Hard Rock Café treated my family to lunch. I went to the event prepared to take notes about our experience watching the princesses from Tiny Diva Princess Party perform as well as the experience of having lunch with my kiddos somewhere other than the park or our home. However, I ended up spending most of my time paying attention to my kids’ reactions. I sipped on my water, ate my juicy and spicy Fiesta Burger, and I watched my children. While my son was having more fun drawing on his kid’s menu, my daughter was absolutely delighted by what was happening before her eyes.

While the kiddos and I ate our food, we watched Anna, Elsa and Kristoff perform some of our favorite songs from Frozen. We had a great seat by the stage, and to be honest, I had a fun time singing along. While my daughter stared at the Frozen Sisters, I couldn’t help but stare at her with a heart full of joy. It was such a simple moment, but for my daughter, it was a magical moment. At one point during the performance, Anna stepped down from the stage to sing and dance with the dozens of kids at the performance. I was about to tap my daughter on the shoulder to encourage her to join Anna and the other children, but for the first time (in forever), she didn’t need my encouragement. She took one more bite of her macaroni and cheese, she gently set her fork down and hopped down from her chair, and she marched over to Anna to hug her. It was such a sweet moment for my girl, and it was a proud moment for me. My daughter tends to be quite shy in these types of social settings, and while she was still a little meek, I saw her take a big, confident step all on her own. And for me, that moment was magical.

HRCMeetAndGreetwithFrozen

The Princess Wednesdays event was fun and we enjoyed our meals while watching the characters perform. Afterward, the kids all had a chance to meet and take pictures with Anna, Elsa and Kristoff. As a parent, it was so entertaining seeing all of the kids excited about singing at their tables, dancing with the Frozen Sisters and meeting some of their favorite characters. The event was free for dine-in guests, and it was a great way to spend an early afternoon with the family. Kids meals are reasonably priced, and we all ended up taking leftovers home. And to sweeten the deal, all Twin Cities Kids Club members who attended the event received $5 off of their purchase of $25 or more at the Hard Rock Café.

Twin Cities Kids Club is sponsoring two more Princess Wednesdays events at the Hard Rock Café during the month of August, and I would love to see you and your kiddos there. The events will be held on Wednesday, August 12th and Wednesday, August 26th starting at 11:00 a.m. at the Hard Rock Café in the Mall of America (located on the first floor near the LEGO® store and Nickelodeon Universe®). On Wednesday, August 12th, all are welcome to dress up in their favorite princess gowns and eat a royal lunch with the princesses of Tiny Diva Princess Party. On Wednesday, August 26th, all are welcome to enjoy a theatrical story time performance of Diva Ever After with the princesses while eating lunch. To learn more about the upcoming events and to make a reservation, please visit the Twin Cities Kids Club Events page on Facebook here.

While guests pay for their own lunch at the Princess Wednesdays events, the performances, and meet and greets with the princesses of Tiny Diva Princess Party are free. So don’t forget to bring your camera! Guests who are also members of Twin Cities Kids Club will get $5 off of their $25 purchase by showing their membership card. To learn more about purchasing a membership, please visit Twin Cities Kids Club.

HRCFunnyFace

{Disclaimer: I received a free lunch from the Hard Rock Café for sharing my experience of attending Princess Wednesdays. All thoughts and opinions are 100% my own. I am also a team member of Twin Cities Kids Club, and I am excited to share my adventures of working with a fun, small, local group of talented individuals.}

3 Comments
  • Katie says:

    What a cool event!!! I’m glad you chose the word “magical” instead of the phrase “worry less” i feel like its easy to add in a little magic, but hard to make yourself not worry.

  • Beth says:

    It is so hard to find the magic in everyday moments, but it seems like you’re doing a pretty good job – sometimes it is really great to step back and really view the world through our children’s eyes!

  • Kristy says:

    Great pictures and a wonderful story! Keep writing ! ! ! !

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Scary Mommy
I'm Published by Mamalode!
  • Happy birthday, sweet girl! It’s such a joy to be your mommy and to watch you grow! 💜 #adventureswithv #thisistwo #birthdaygirl
  • Just a gentle push to get my butt out of bed to work out in the mornings before the rest of the household wakes 🙃. #thisismotherhood #strongwomen #workit
  • Have you ever not done something that you really wanted to do because you were too shy, or anxious, or afraid of how you would look? I have been in this situation far too many times than I’d like to admit. My ear gets hot and red, my heart pounds, I feel nauseous, my voice shakes, that inner voice of self doubt kicks in, etc. Well, today I decided that I wasn’t going to let my anxiety take something else away from me. After almost a year of telling myself “No, you can’t do that,” I decided to say, “F it, I’m going to try.” I’m going to try for my kids, because they need to know that even adults are scared to try new things, but we can choose to still go ahead and do our best. I am going to learn something new for my kids, because they need to see that even adults are never too old or too smart to learn something new. I’m going to have fun trying something new, because my kids need to see that fear and worry can be turned into positive energy. So today I finally took my first Taekwondo class. And I was so nervous. Sooooooo nervous. But you know what? I survived. I had fun. And I earned my white belt. So the journey begins. What’s something you have been wanting to do that you haven’t tried yet? What’s stopping you? You got this. #motherhood #anxietyproblems #taekwondo #taekwondofamily #ninjainthemaking #storytellingmama
  • Birthday weekend begins for my baby who’s not quite a baby anymore 😢🎈🎉💜🦄🌸👶🏼 #birthdaygirl #almost2 #toddlermom  #wheredidmybabygo
  • Damn, I feel like a farmer 👨‍🌾. #urbangardening #potatoes #urbangarden #mnblogger #twincitiesblogger #hellofall #harvest
  • The green belt becomes a blue belt! #proudwifey #taekwondofamily #taekwondo #bluebelt
  • Hammer fist! So close to earning his brown belt. #perseverance #hammerfist #boardbreaking #taekwondo #taekwondofamily #purplebelt #proudmama #mnblogger #twincitiesblogger
  • No need to buy pumpkins this year because these beauties came from our own garden! I’d say it was a pretty successful harvest for our first pumpkin patch. #octoberbaby #pumpkinpatch #superpumpkin #urbangardening #harvest #mnblogger #twincitiesblogger
  • #riptompetty #wontbackdown #standmyground #kindnesswins #vegasstrong
%d bloggers like this: